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# Accountability or "wiggle room"?
May 27, 2026
Creating a culture of accountability is the kindest thing you can do for your team.
I've just emerged from a coaching session having had this conversation: My client had just pulled off something absolutely amazing. She'd had a staff away day that left the team aligned, energized, and ready to move. One team member who had long been a source of friction was suddenly engaged, contributing and asking questions, so the momentum was building.
And yet in the coaching session, she hesitated. "I don't want to be too rigid". "I don't want people to feel burdened." I"'m afraid to create too much pressure."
That hesitation, I told her, is exactly what will unravel everything you want to build. This is all about the myth of the "nice" leader. (read my document -The Kindness Trap in free resources) Many people fear that accountability will damage what they want to create; they offer wiggle room or they get flexible on deadlines. They avoid direct conversations about consequences. They would rather escalate problems to HR than have the hard conversations themselves. And in doing that, they inadvertently communicate that the agreements that they made, the commitments that they agreed to, don't really matter.
No consequences, no accountability.
Without consequences, accountability is just a word, it's a wish. For accountability to be real, people need to know what happens when they deliver and what happens when they don't. That means named, agreed consequences, written down, communicated clearly before the moment when they're needed. This isn't about punishment; it's about honesty. It's saying, "This is what we agreed on. This is what matters, and here's what's at stake when you don't." When people understand that, they don't feel burdened; they feel respected.
Here are 3 shifts that transform team culture.
1. Replace flexible timelines with firm ones. When your deadlines are flexible without reason, they stop being deadlines. Your job as the leader is to hold the line kindly, firmly, and consistently.
2. Stop outsourcing the difficult conversations. HR exists for legal and process matters, not to deliver leadership on your behalf. That's just weak leadership. When you handle performance conversations yourself, you preserve trust and authority.
3. Make autonomy (which most people want) conditional on delivery. Everybody wants ownership and autonomy, but then they have to deliver. They're like gifts, and like any gift, it should be withdrawn if the performance and delivery are not there.
Clarity in instructions and agreements creates psychological safety. The leaders I coach who fear that clarity will trigger people leaving almost always find the opposite. People thrive in clear, accountable environments, and those are exactly the people that you want to keep. Those who struggle with firm expectations often find their own way out, not because you were harsh, but because a results-oriented culture simply wasn't the right fit.
Accountability done well is one of the most generous things you can offer your team. It tells them, "I believe you can deliver, I believe this work matters, and I respect you enough to hold you to it."
Yvonne Johnston
Leadership & Self-Mastery Coach
Yvonne Johnston is a Master Coach, former CEO of Brand South Africa, and Harvard speaker with over 40 years of leadership experience. She works with senior executives and individuals ready to get clear and make change that sticks.
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